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Ten Bad Women in the Bible: Delilah
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Bible People: Delilah
Born to be bad: Delilah's Story

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She done him wrong: Samson's Story

Bible Archaeology: Jewelry
Wealth, and the freedom it gave - this is what Delilah wanted

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Samson a great Bible hero - though I don't see it myself

 

 

  

                      
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BIBLE WOMEN: DELILAH: MOONNames in the Bible often tell us something about the person:

Delilah is a play on the Hebrew word laylah, which means 'night'; it can also mean 'flirtatious', or 'inclined towards love'. Delilah's morals were ambiguous to say the least, and she was probably a high-class prostitute - what today would be delicately referred to as an 'escort'.

BIBLE WOMEN: DELILAH: SUNSamson means 'the sun'. 

Because their names mean 'night' and 'day' the story may have come originally from an ancient myth about the struggle between night and day, sun and moon, darkness and light. This theme was common in Middle Eastern mythology.

What the story is about

The story of Delilah is an episode in the life of Samson, a hero of the Israelites at the time of the Judges. 
On the surface, the story condemned Delilah, and later generations saw her as an evil woman. But a closer look raises questions about the motives and behavior of both the main characters.

 

The story of Delilah contains four different episodes:

1 Delilah and the Philistine lords, Judges 16:4-5. Delilah was approached by the powerful Philistine lords who ordered her to help them.

2 Delilah questions Samson, Judges 16:6-14. Delilah tried to find out the secret of Samsons strength. He evaded her questions, giving her three false answers.

3 Delilah learns the truth, Judges 16:15-17. By persisting, Delilah found out the truth about Samson, that he was dedicated to God before he was born.

4 Samson's hair is cut off, Judges 16:18-21. Delilah ordered a servant to cut off Samson's hair while he slept. 

 

The story describes the way that Delilah, a Philistine woman, discovered the secret of Samson's strength, and sold  that secret to the Philistine lords. 

For a short version of Delilah's story, see Bible People: Delilah; for Samson, see Bible People: Samson 

BIBLE WOMEN: DELILAH: FROM 'SAMSON AND DELILAH'

View the final scenes from the 1949 film  
'Samson and Delilah' 
; an oldie but a goodie

 

Delilah and the Philistines

Judges 16:4-5

 

The story of Delilah is set during the period of the Judges, when the Israelites were still attempting to gain a foothold in the land they had invaded.

 

After this Samson fell in love with a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. The lords of the Philistines came to her and said to her 'Coax him, and find out what makes his strength so great, and how we may overpower him, so that we may bind him in order to subdue him; and we will each give you eleven hundred pieces of silver.'

Read Judges 16:4-5.

 

The traditional image of Delilah as a seductress; still from the film 'Samson and Delilah'

Delilah is introduced as a woman from the valley of Sorek, which in Hebrew means 'vineyard valley'. It is about twenty kilometers southwest of Jerusalem. At the time of the story, it was held by the Philistines. 

 

She is not introduced as 'the wife of' or 'of the tribe of', and we are not told whether she was Israelite or Philistine. This is unusual. She may have been a courtesan, independent of either group; or an Israelite, disowned because of what happened to Samson. Perhaps the story-tellers took it for granted that she was a Philistine. We do not know for sure.


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Delilah questions Samson

Here's something to do: Tell the story from the point of view of each character, one at a time. You'll see how rich, how complex the story is.

Judges 16:6-14

 

After the approach from the Philistine lords, Delilah set about finding the secret of Samson's strength. Why was he so much stronger than other men? How could the Philistines curb that strength, and so protect themselves against Samson? She asked him this questions three times, Three times he lied to her.

Then Delilah said to Samson 'You have mocked me and told me lies; please tell me how you could be bound'. He said to her 'If they bind me with new ropes that have not been used, then I shall become weak, and be like anyone else'. So Delilah took new ropes and bound him with them and said to him 'The Philistines are upon you, Samson!'  (The men lying in wait were in an inner chamber.) But he snapped the ropes off his arms like a thread.

Read Judges 16:6-14

 

The upper classes in ancient Israel admired foreign fashions and design. They employed Phoenician craftsmen  to produce designs similar to Egyptian, Mesopotamian and Assyrian pieces of the period. See some of these extravagent pieces at Ancient Jewelry   

The answers Samson gave have some significance. They suggest a superstitious belief in magic and sacred numbers:

  • Answer 1: he could be held with seven fresh bowstrings; seven is a sacred number and fresh bowstrings made of unprocessed gut were not as strong as seasoned bowstrings. But they were new, unused, and in some cultures this gave them a special power.

  • Answer 2: he could be held with a new rope; new rope is strong, but hardly stronger in reality than rope used once or twice before.

  • Answer 3: he could be held if Delilah wove the seven strands of his hair into her loom. This was the strangest suggestion. It may have had magical associations for the people of Samson’s time.

Each time, when Delilah called out 'The Philistines are upon you', Samson immediately broke the bonds. 

Delilah was asking him to trust her enough to reveal his own weakness, perhaps to let go of the need to be in control, but he was reluctant to do this. The story was told by someone with an insight into human psychology. Samson recognized her power over him, and struggled fruitlessly against it.

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Delilah learns the truth

Judges 16:15-17

 

Ultimately, Delilah’s persistence paid off. Samson confessed to her that the secret of his strength was that he was a 'nazir'.

Then she said to him: 'How can you say 'I love you' when your heart is not with me? You have mocked me three times now and have not told me what makes your strength so great.' So he told her his whole secret, and said to her 'A razor has never come upon my head; for I have been a Nazirite to God from my mother's womb. If my head were shaved, then my strength would leave me; I would become weak, and be like anyone else.

Read Judges 16:15-17

 

BIBLE WOMEN: DELILAH: FILM 'SAMSON AND DELILAH'

A still from the film 'Samson and Delilah'

Being a 'nazir' meant that Samson had been consecrated to God at birth, had never drunk wine, and had let his hair remain unshaven throughout his life.

Soldiers who fought a 'holy war' often left their hair long -  this is hinted at in a previous description of soldiers in Deborah’s army (Judges 5:2). We know that ancient Spartan soldiers going into battle unbound and tangled their long hair, to make them look more frightening.


Samson had to explain the customs of a Nazirite to Delilah, which suggests that she did not already know them. Had she been an Israelite, she would surely have been aware of them.

 

Delilah recognized the truth when she finally heard it. She did not need to test it, as she had in the previous three incidents. She sent a message to the Philistine lords.

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Samson's hair is cut off

 

Judges 16:18-21

 

The Philistine lords came, bringing the money promised to Delilah. That money would free her from economic bondage for the rest of her life. As a courtesan without the protection of a family or husband, she needed transportable wealth - usually coins or jewelry. 

 

See Bible Archaeology: Jewelry for the sort of ornaments Delilah wore. 

 

She let him fall asleep on her lap; and she called a man, and had him shave off the seven locks of his head. He began to weaken, and his strength left him. Then she said 'The Philistines are upon you, Samson!' When he awoke from his sleep, he thought 'I will go out as at other times, and shake myself free'. But he did not know that the Lord had left him.

Read Judges 16:18-21. 

She was angry and frustrated. 'Three times you have deceived me,' she said - and finally he told her the truth. ' I am strong because my hair has never been cut. If it were cut I would lose all of my strength.' This time Delilah sensed he had told the truth. She sent a message to the Philistine leaders. 'Come and get him', she said. Samson's Story

 

Throughout the whole Bible story, Delilah's emotions are not mentioned. This omission dehumanizes her, as if she was detached from what was happening. 

But there is something very moving in the picture of Samson sleeping with his head in Delilah's lap, unaware of the forces assembling against him. Unless she had good reason to hate all Israelites, Delilah must have felt some pity for him. Or perhaps not.

 

Samson believed that if his hair was cut, his superhuman strength would disappear, and it did. In the words of the story, 'the Lord had left him'. 

 

We do not know the terms of the arrangement Delilah made with the Philistine lords, or what she expected would happen to Samson. In the context of the times, she probably expected a quick death for him, rather than the protracted torture which eventually followed his capture.

 

But in one of the most dramatic sentences in the Bible, Judges 16:22 gives an ominous glimpse of what is in store for the Philistines - 'but the hair of his (Samson's) head began to grow again......'.

   

From that moment, we hear no more of  Delilah. Samson will kill himself and many people when he topples the building at the great celebration in honor of Dagon, a fertility god and patron of the city of Ashdod (Judges 16:23-31), but there is no mention of her. It seems likely that she was absent from this horrifying event. If she had been among the dead, this fact would surely have been noted.

 

The short version of Samson's life is at Bible Stories: Samson but see also Bible Top Ten Heroes and Bible Top Ten Warriors
For Delilah, see Bible Top Ten Bad Woman  and Bible Stories: Delilah

 

Read about more women from the Old/New Testaments

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                                        Bible Study Resource for Women in the Bible: Delilah 
                                               Samson, Delilah and the Secret of his Strength

 

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