The Story of Rebecca in the Bible

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Jewelry in biblical times 

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Lies, lies, lies - the story of Rebecca's son Jacob

Isaac's face as he prepares to die at the hands of his father Abraham: Caravaggio, detail

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A short version of hist story 

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Rebecca tricks Isaac into giving his Blessing to Jacob instead of Esau






...and Isaac loved her 

Rebecca means 'a heifer, a young cow', a symbol of fertility
means 'may God smile/laugh', perhaps a reference to his mother Sarah's laughter when she heard she was to become pregnant in her old age
means 'he who grabs for something' - either his brother's heel at the moment of birth, or his brother's inheritance later on

was nicknamed Edom, which meant 'red'; he was born with a ruddy complexion then spent most of his time outdoors, so his face and skin may have been unusually red.

Main themes of the story

  • A beautiful Jersey heiferWomen are people too. They can be just as ambitious, loving, deceitful and self-sacrificing as men. Their individual personality shapes them, not their gender. 

  • God's plan for humanity is beyond our understanding. The Bible does not flinch from showing the complexity of human nature. Rebecca deceived her aged husband and betrayed her older son. The other members of her family are also less than perfect. Yet God uses them for His purpose. 

  • Fulfillment of God's promise: this story shows the gradual unfolding of God's plan. Sarah and Abraham will have many descendants and become a great nation. 

Stone well with still water reflecting greeneryThe story of Rebecca has three episodes:
1 the betrothal and marriage of Rebecca (Genesis 24). Rebecca is introduced as a brave and resourceful young woman. She impressed all the people who met her. She was a good match for Isaac, and became his much-loved wife..     

2 the birth and youth of Esau and Jacob (Genesis 25:19-34). Rebecca gave birth to twin sons, Esau and Jacob. The boys had very different temperaments. The conflict between them became the basis for conflict between later generations and nations.

Newborn twins, one with more hair than the other - like Esau and Jacob. Photograph by Kyla Baker at kylabakerphotography.com3 Rebecca and the blessing of Isaac (Genesis 27). Esau, born first,  should have inherited the role of tribal leader, but Rebecca judged that Jacob would be better at this task than his older brother. She and Jacob tricked Isaac, old and blind, into giving the leadership to Jacob. Rebecca wanted the tribal leader chosen for his intelligence rather than his popularity, so that decisions for the tribe would be based on wisdom rather than impulse or emotion.  


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Her Betrothal and Marriage

Rebekah at the Well, painting by Michael Deas 1995Rebecca was the young woman who became the wife of Isaac, Sarah's son. She came from a well-to-do family in upper Mesopotamia, now northeastern Syria. She was a relative of Abraham; her family background is given in Genesis 22:20-23.

Rebecca was beautiful, shrewd, energetic, physically robust and strong-willed. We first meet her at the well of Aram-naharaim, where she showed that she was willing to work, and confident enough to speak without fear to the strangers who had been sent by Abraham to find a wife for Isaac.

This moment, with its symbolism of the well and water, has been popular with artists. 
See Bible Art: Rebecca for famous paintings of this moment.

'Before he had finished speaking, there was Rebecca, coming out with her water jar on her shoulder. The girl was very fair to look upon, a young girl, whom no man had known. She went down to the spring, filled her jar, and came up.'  
Read Genesis 24:1-27.  

Rebecca impressed Abraham's men who had stopped to rest at the well. They offered her valuable gifts, including a gold nose-ring and two gold bracelets, which she accepted.

Mesopotamian jewelry from Khorsabad, Iraq See Bible Archaeology: Jewelry for pictures of the stunning jewelry worn by all ranks of women in ancient times.

There are two types of gifts mentioned in this story, both related to marriage customs of the time:

  • the bride price, given by the family of the groom to the bride's family; in Rebecca's case, it is gold and silver jewelry and clothing, with additional gifts for members of her family

  • the dowry, which was money, servants/slaves and gifts taken with the bride to her new home; Rebecca took her nurse and maids with her as part of her dowry.

Rebecca led the men to her home, to introduce them to her family. Her brother Laban spoke as head of the house, inviting them to stay in his household. This suggests that their father Bethuel was alive, but for some reason was incapable of acting as head of the household. A proposal of marriage, on behalf of Isaac, was made. It was accepted by Rebecca and by her family.

'And they called Rebecca and said to her "Will you go with this man?" She said "I will". So they sent away their sister Rebecca and her nurse along with Abraham's servant and his man, and they blessed Rebecca.'  

The description of Rebecca's betrothal and marriage gives a fair picture of marriage practices among the early Hebrew people:

  • the marriage was arranged between families rather than between the individuals themselves

  • there were definite legal procedures to be followed: in Mesopotamia, a marriage arranged by a brother was only valid if the woman gave her full consent. This is why the biblical text mentions consultation with Rebecca. For more on arranging marriages, and childbirth in ancient Israel, see Women's Lives: Major Events

Rebecca had more say in whom she married than did Isaac, her future husband. Genesis 24:8 suggests that the marriage would not have gone ahead without her consent, but Isaac is expected to marry the woman brought home to him by his father's agents.

Read Genesis 24:28-61   

As she faced the journey to her new home, she seemed sure of her own judgment, and ready for this daunting new experience.  Her journey took her from upper Mesopotamia, in what is now northeastern Syria, to Beer-lahai-roi in the Negev, a distance of about eight or nine hundred kilometers.  For maps of this area, go to MAPS

When Rebecca and Isaac met, it seems to have been love at first sight. He took her to the tent that had once belonged to his mother Sarah - this tent was to be Rebecca's now.

Read Genesis 24:62-67.

The phrase 'Isaac loved her' is used, something most unusual for the biblical text. Rebecca comforted Isaac after his mother's death; the deep bond that Isaac had with Sarah was replaced by his love for Rebecca. This biblical story has an 'and they lived happy ever after' feel about it.  

The Birth and Youth of Esau and Jacob

'Jacob and Esau wrestling in the womb' , Charles Sherman

'Jacob and Esau Wrestling in the Womb'
by Charles Sherman

Rebecca did not conceive for quite some years, and this was considered both a personal misfortune and a sign that she was not favored by God. Eventually however she became pregnant, but even then it was not plain sailing. She had a difficult pregnancy, since the two babies inside her were constantly moving, so that she had no peace. Even before they were born, they were struggling with each other. Like many women before and since, she wondered what she had got herself into.  

So she 'went to enquire of the Lord'. Rebecca was the first woman we hear of who sought God out and asked him for some explanation of her condition. This shows her initiative and self-confidence. The method she used to speak with God is not explained, but a common practice in the ancient world was to consult a prophet or oracle. Rebecca may have followed this practice or, as in Numbers 12:6, the message may have come to her in a dream.  

God told her that

'Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples born of you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the elder shall serve the younger.'

Read Genesis 25:19-23  

'Babies did not wear diapers; they ‘went’ into small clay pots that the mother carried with her. A mother quickly learnt to read the signals her baby sent when it was about to excrete, and since a baby virtually never left its mother’s side, this was easier than it would be now.' 
  Childbirth in ancient times

Rebecca had twin sons, Esau and Jacob.

The struggle in her womb had been a sign that there was to be

  • a lifelong struggle between Esau and Jacob, and

  • a continuing struggle between their descendents, the Edomites and the Israelites.

'When her time to give birth was at hand, there were twins in her womb. The first came out red, all his body like a hairy mantle, so they named him Esau. Afterward his brother came out, with his hand gripping Esau's heel, so he was named Jacob.'  
For Jacob's story, see Bible People: Jacob

Read Genesis 25:24-28  

From the start, Esau was a 'man's man', good at hunting and outdoors activities, confident, careless, unconcerned. He had a good relationship with his father. He married two Hittite (non-Hebrew) women who did not get on well with Rebecca and Isaac (see Genesis 26:34-35). Jacob was quiet, more thoughtful, more interested in learning. He did not particularly enjoy outdoors activities. He depended on his intelligence and his wits rather than on brute strength. The clash between these two young men echoes the continuing struggle between the nomadic hunter and the settled agriculturalist, as related in the story of Cain and Abel - see 'Eve: Her World'.     

Rebecca and the Blessing of Isaac  

One day, Esau carelessly gave up his birthright, half of his inheritance, to his younger twin Jacob.  On the death of the father, property was divided in equal shares between the sons, but the eldest son got a double portion. This was called the 'birthright' of the eldest. Thus in a family of two sons, the elder would get two-thirds, the younger would get one-third. Daughters had already received their inheritance in the form of a dowry. In the story of the stew, Esau gave up his right to a double portion and transferred this right to Jacob.  

Esau Sells his Birthright, painting by Hendrick ter Brugghen

In Genesis 26 there is a story involving Rebecca and King Abimelech in Gerar. It is similar to one involving Sarah, in Genesis 20. The episode is really about water rights in the area, essential to a nomadic people. In the section involving Rebecca (26:1-11), all Rebecca's actions suggest that she was active, not passive, a planner and doer, not a victim. So the episode with Abimelech is likely to have resulted from co-operation between her and Isaac. Indeed, judging from other events in her life, the plan may have originated with her.

Photograph of an extended Middle Eastern family

'Within an ancient clan there was a central family, who gave the clan its name. The matriarch was the woman within the central family with the highest social standing, and she was owed the greatest respect. She was responsible for the well-being of all the members of the clan.'  
Who Was the Boss?

After this, we learn of Judith and Basemath, Esau's Hittite wives who made life bitter for Rebecca and Isaac (Genesis 26:34-35). 

The resentment of Judith and Basemath was understandable. In their eyes, their husband should have been in line to inherit a double portion of Jacob's possessions, which he would not now receive. They overlooked the fact that it was their husband's fault that this was so, and took out their anger on their in-laws. 

But the story suggests that the real reason for this grubby behavior lay in their origins. They were foreigners, with foreign gods and customs. To the writers of the biblical text, this meant they could never be suitable wives for Hebrew men. (But this idea is contradicted later, in the story of Ruth - see Bible Men and Women: Ruth  for her story.)

When Isaac was very old, he realized that it was nearly time for him to die. This meant that he should give his formal Blessing to the son he wanted to succeed him. In ancient Hebrew tribes, the Blessing meant the handing over of legal power to a successor - a more valuable gift than any amount of property. The person who received the Blessing had authority over the whole clan, even over people who were older than himself. If Jacob had the Blessing, he would govern the tribe after Isaac's death.

But Esau was Isaac's favorite son. He had many of the qualities that Isaac lacked: he was hearty, carefree, a good hunter, and physically strong. The question was: would he be the best person to govern the tribe after Jacob's death? Rebecca did not think so. She believed that the quiet, intelligent Jacob would do a better job.  

She therefore colluded with her younger son, and under her direction, Jacob tricked his dying father into giving the Blessing to him.   

'Then Rebecca took the best garments of her elder son Esau, which were with her in the house, and put them on her younger son Jacob; and she put the skins of the kids on his hands and on the smooth part of his neck'

Isaac blessing Jacob, by Gioachino Assereto, 1640

In the modern world, we admire honesty and integrity. The actions of Rebecca and Jacob seem underhand to us. In ancient times, however, this duo of schemers would have been admired. Trickery and cunning were valued, because the world was dangerous and unpredictable, and people needed every advantage they could get, to survive. Rebecca may have hated what she had to do - but it was necessary, given Esau's impetuous foolishness and the long term effect it would have on the tribe.

Read Genesis 27:1-40  

Rebecca had developed from a beautiful, confident young girl into a far-sighted and shrewd woman. She chose the son she believed was more capable of governing the clan. But some questions must be asked:

  • Did Jacob really trick Isaac into thinking he was Esau? Is it possible that Isaac was aware all along of what was happening?

  • Did Isaac go along with Rebecca's deception because he knew in his heart of hearts that Jacob was better suited for the task of leadership?

'Now Esau hated Jacob because of the Blessing with which his father had blessed him, and Esau said to himself "The days of mourning for my father are approaching; then I will kill my brother Jacob". But the words of her elder son Esau were told to Rebecca.'

WOMEN IN THE BIBLE:REBECCA REBEKAH Esau was enraged, as well he might be. He had been betrayed by his mother and his brother and lost the inheritance that was due to him, his birthright and the Blessing. He planned to kill Jacob as soon as his father died - for a short version of Isaac's life, see Bible People: Isaac
Once again, Rebecca stepped in, helping Jacob to escape. She also maneuvered Isaac into arranging a marriage between Jacob and one of the daughters of Laban, the brother she had left so many years ago in Mesopotamia.  

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