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POTIPHAR’S
WIFE
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THE STORY OF POTIPHAR’S WIFE
Potiphar’s
wife has no name. This is a way of
dehumanizing her, or making her seem less than a real person. Her point of
view and her version of what happened are ignored by the story-tellers,
since they do not serve the narrator's purpose.
Potiphar
or Potiphera is an Egyptian name
meaning 'he whom the god Ra has given' Joseph
means
'God increases or adds to'
What the story is about:
The story of Potiphar’s wife draws attention to the
different ways that Hebrew and Egyptian women behaved, and the
inherent difference between the two cultures. Egyptian culture always posed a danger to the integrity of Israelite culture, and
the Israelites led by Moses would eventually flee from it, just as Joseph
fled from the Egyptian woman.
The time period is
uncertain, but the story seems to be set during the Middle Kingdom,
somewhere between 2030BC to 1640BC. Potiphar may have been 'Ptahwer', an officer of Pharaoh
Ahmenemhet III (pictured at right), but there is no real evidence either way.
The story happens during a period of economic
prosperity.
The story unfolds in the household of a rich man, Potiphar, who owns
many slaves. One of these is the Hebrew Joseph, a man of unusual ability
who has been placed in control of Potiphar's large estate and household.
(See end of page for
historical background and information about the lives of women.)
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What
the story is about:
The
Context of the Story
The Wife's Attempted
Seduction of Joseph
The Wife's Accusation
Summary
Migration and Settlement in
Egypt
The
Cultural Setting for this Story
Activities and Focus Questions
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The
story contains three
central episodes:
1 Background details for what
happens (Genesis 39:1-6).
2 The wife’s attempted seduction of Joseph
(Genesis 39:7-12).
3 The wife’s accusation (Genesis 39:13-20)
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THE CONTEXT OF THE STORY
(Genesis 39:1-6)
Joseph
was the first son of the Hebrew heroine, Rachel. He had every God-given advantage except
personal freedom: he was handsome, intelligent, shrewd - a born leader. He
also had God's special favor. But he was a slave, albeit one of
the high-ranking and influential servants who exercised power
in ancient households and court circles.
After being kidnapped and sold
into slavery, Joseph found himself in the household of the second man in
the story, a wealthy officer in Pharaoh's service, Potiphar, who became
Joseph's master. By dint of
hard work and his own native intelligence, Joseph rose through the ranks
of the household slaves, eventually becoming overseer of Potiphar's
household and estates. Under Joseph's supervision, everything ran
smoothly, and Potiphar was left free of responsibility, able to devote
himself to his one great passion, food.
‘…he
had no concern for anything but the food that he ate.’
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There is nothing wrong with enjoyment of food, but the
implication of the text is that Potiphar had no interest in any of the
other normal pleasures of life, including sex with his wife. The Hebrew
text uses the word 'saris' to describe him. This can mean
'courtier', 'someone who belongs to the king', but elsewhere in the Old
Testament 'saris' is used to describe a eunuch. Potiphar was
married and therefore cannot have been a eunuch, but there may be a sly
suggestion that Potiphar's sexual prowess was not all it should have been.
Read Genesis 39:1-6.
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THE WIFE’S ATTEMPTED SEDUCTION OF JOSEPH
(Genesis 39:7-12)
‘Now Joseph was handsome and good-looking. And
after a time his master’s wife cast her eyes on Joseph and said “Lie
with me”.’
For a while, nothing happened. But during
this period, the third person in the story, Potiphar's Egyptian wife,
noticed Joseph, inadvertently assuming the
role of Mrs Robinson in 'The Graduate' (1967). Since Joseph ran the household,
Potiphar's wife was in
constant contact with him.
She
seems to have been a lonely, bored woman thrown into the company of an
unusually handsome, attractive man, a Brad Pitt
of the ancient world. She realized that what she'd wanted out of life, and
what she'd got, were two quite different things. The result was a foregone conclusion.
In
Israelite and Egyptian culture, a slave girl was automatically assumed to
be sexually available to her master (see Exodus21:9-11), as were boy
slaves, though of course sex with boys was forbidden by the
Israelite moral code. Potiphar's wife seems to have decided that what was
good for the gander was good for the goose - a
male slave should be available to her if she wished, as a female slave was
available to her husband. But the biblical narrator does not share that
idea: according to the Hebrew way of thinking, a woman was the exclusive sexual property of her husband.
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The
Egyptian wife did not sees things like this. Neglected as she
was by her husband, she lost her head. She made some kind of sexual approach
to Joseph, which the text rather baldly sums up as 'Lie with
me'. As far as the narrator was concerned, this was a straightforward
attempt by a woman to use her sexual and social power to dominate a man,
and as such it was definitely A Bad Thing.
Joseph was in a delicate situation. He had to either
offend the wife or betray her husband. He judged that the former was less
dangerous, and repulsed the woman.
The wife was now in the grip of uncontrollable
infatuation. She again begged Joseph to respond to her desire with the
urgent 'Lie with me",
but he avoided all possible contact with her, as far as he was able. One day
when they were alone in the house
she again begged for his love. In the physical tussle that followed, she pulled off the
linen kalasiris that was the normal clothing of an Egyptian male.
Naked, Joseph
ran out of the room and then out of the house altogether, leaving his clothing
behind.
Read Genesis 39:7-12.
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The linen kalasiris, a loose pleated skirt that
was the main garment worn by Egyptian men
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THE WIFE’S ACCUSATION
(Genesis 39:13-20)
‘When she saw that he had left his garment in her
hand and had fled outside, she called out to the members of her household
and said to them “See, my husband has brought among us a Hebrew to
insult us! He came in to me to lie with me, and I cried out with a loud
voice; and when he heard me raise my voice and cry out, he left his
garment beside me, and fled outside”.’
Suddenly, the passion she had felt for Joseph was
transformed into hysterical rage. She had been humiliated by a slave, and she knew
it. What was more, she knew that she had no-one to blame but herself. In
her escalating fury she lashed out at Joseph. She called out to the members of the
household (but weren't we just told there was no-one in the house?)
that she has been attacked by Joseph, who had tried to rape her.
She held up Joseph's loin-cloth to prove her point, suggesting that only
her screams had prevented him abusing her. She waited until her
husband came into the house, and told him the same story, blaming him for
bringing trouble to their house in the form of this foreign slave.
He was enraged - at Joseph? at her?
The text leaves this question unanswered. The husband too was faced with
a dilemma: should he discredit and divorce his wife and retain a valuable
servant, one who has made his life much more comfortable, or should he believe his
wife, punish the servant and thus lose the comfort and order he
valued more than anything? He (probably reluctantly) chose the latter
course of action, impelled by the fact that the incident was now common
knowledge and that he would, as a cuckold, become the object of ridicule. He
charged Joseph with the attempted rape of his wife, and put him in prison. Of
the wife, we hear no more.
Read Genesis 39:13-20
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Reconstruction of Egyptian bed and chair
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Summary
This
story explores the moral vacuum in the heart of a rich, bored woman. She has power over other people's lives, but none over her
own. She lacks the children she had a right to expect, and she lacks the
love of her husband. In short, she has no purpose. As the story unfolds,
we realize that Joseph the slave was able to exercise more control over
circumstances than she was.
In an
apparently vulnerable position, Joseph was able to resist the
allure of a foreign woman and a foreign culture. Both tried to entice
him, but he stayed true to the Israelite moral code, which had a
different understanding of the rights of men and women.
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Older and wiser (John Singer Sargant's
Egyptian
Woman with Earrings)
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MIGRATION
AND SETTLEMENT IN EGYPT
In about 1650BCE, a dark age
settled over Mesopotamia. The
great cities were destroyed in war, and society fragmented into small
groups. In the period of confusion and destruction that followed, many
people were on the move. They left their homes and searched for a secure
place to live, or simply tried to escape the social upheaval - much as
migrants and refugees do today.
At first, the migrants lived
in small, mobile clans that followed their flocks wherever pasture was best. They traveled
into territory already occupied by people called the Canaanites, a
relatively advanced group who lived a settled life in city-states and had
an economy based on agriculture and trade.
As they prospered, the
settler groups grew larger and began to
split into offshoot clans. Eventually, following a famine in Canaan, a
large number migrated to Egypt, where they became workers on the state
projects of the Pharaohs.
Even though they were living in the sophisticated
cultural atmosphere of Egypt, these people held on to their own separate
identity as Hebrews. The focus of their difference was worship of
Jahweh, a deity who combined the power of all the gods of other tribes, but
had a special relationship with them.
Because
of its power and its proximity, Egypt has been a strong presence in the
biblical history of Israel.
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THE CULTURAL SETTING FOR THIS STORY
The laws of the Babylonian king Hammurabi, codified several centuries before
the events in this story, provide insights into attitudes towards women in
this period. There were laws to
- protect the rights of women in marriage
- protect women against rape
- define the punishment for adultery
- define the just treatment of women who were
slaves
- regulate the behavior of sacred women who served
in the temples
- lay down conditions for divorce, etc.
It was probably in this period that women enjoyed
greatest freedom and prestige. The stories in Genesis and Exodus show them
as independent and strong, smart and tough. They displayed leadership and
initiative. They almost always got their way when they wanted something.
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The
love
poems and lullabies of this period are another
source of information. Some of the material in the Song of Songs may
have been drawn from Egyptian love songs, and there was certainly
cross-fertilization between these two sources. Potiphar's wife would have
known, and been influenced by, the rich sensuality of these songs, which
describe the joys, pain, desire, confusion and hope of young love - or
old, for that matter.
The song-poems capture the essence of private and
personal feelings. They are about sexual, not romantic love. People in the
ancient world were more comfortable with their sexuality than later
Western civilization (see the influence of Platonic dualism in 'Ideas
About Women at That Time' in any of the chapters about New Testament women
on this website).
Some examples of Egyptian love-songs follow:
A young man to his beloved:
Behold her... shining, precious, white of skin, lovely of eyes when
gazing
Long of neck, white of breast, her hair true
lapis lazuli
Her arms surpass gold, her fingers like lotuses
Rounded her bottom, narrow her waist, her thighs
carry her beauty
Lovely her walk when she strides on the ground,
she has captured my heart
She makes the head of all men turn when they see
her
Lucky the one who embraces her....
A young woman describes her heart, the Ka, as it
leaves her body to join her beloved, leaving her emotionally adrift and
confused:
My heart leaves my body when I think of your love, it leaps out of its
place towards you
I cannot act like a normal person, don my clothes, wear my cloak
I cannot apply my make-up or anoint myself with oil
O my heart, stop making me foolish
Be still, calm down, wait for your lover to come to you
(Poems adapted from material in 'The
Song of Songs and the ancient Egyptian love songs', Michael V. Fox,
University of Wisconsin Press, 1985)
Don't have people say 'This woman has gone to pieces with love'
Be firm when you think of him, be still my heart
A young woman tells her lover to hurry as he comes
to her:
If only you would come swiftly, like a gazelle bounding over the desert
Racing because there is fear in your heart
A hunting dog pursues you but can't even see your dust
Before you can kiss your hand four times you arrive safely at my cave
he Golden One (Hathor, goddess of love) has decreed that we be
together
Some of the poems are quite explicit; a young woman
describes the reward awaiting a lover:
When you bring it to her and push it into her cave/opening
Her gate will be opened, and she, the lady of the house, will demolish it
Give her song and dance, and wine and beer
So that you intoxicate her senses and complete her in the night
And she'll say 'Embrace me, and stay with me until dawn'.
A young man describes how helpless he is in the
toils of love:
How skilful she is at casting the lasso, though it's not cattle she
draws in
With her hair she lassos me, with her eyes she pulls me in
With her thighs she binds me to her, with her seal she brands me as her
own.
For additional information on the lives of women
in the Bible, click on
FAMILY,
WORK, RELIGION
MAJOR
EVENTS: puberty, menstruation, marriage, childbirth, death,
burials
HOUSING
AND CLOTHING.
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ACTIVITIES
AND FOCUS QUESTIONS
Slaves and the Law
Make a search for ancient laws governing the
treatment of slaves, for example in Deuteronomy 23:15-20, on fugitive slaves or
in the Code of Hammurabi
Empathizing
with the character in the story
Try to imagine that you are Potiphar’s wife,
living in a wealthy Egyptian household.
What type of house would you have? What would you be
wearing (clothing, footwear, jewelry)?
What would be the attitudes to love and sex in Egypt at
the time?
What would be the routine of your daily life?
Why would you be attracted to Joseph?
Debate:
That wage slavery in the modern world is the same as slavery in past ages
Divide into two sides
Decide which side will support the proposal and
which will oppose it
Each group draws up a list of at
least three points to support your argument
Share the points between groups, and decide which
points should be argued most strongly
Nominate debating team members and a chairperson
Choose the team members for your side
Team members meet and prepare their arguments
Conduct the debate; guests may be invited
Hold a debriefing where team members can discuss the experience.
Focus Questions
1. What are the most interesting moments in the story? Why
do these particular moments appeal to me?
2. In the story, who speaks and who listens? Who acts? Who gets what they
want? If you were in the story, which person would you want to be friends
with? Which person would you want to avoid?
3. What is God's interaction with the main characters? What does this tell
you about the narrator's image of God? Do you agree with this image?
4. What is happening on either side of the story, in the chapters before
and after it? Does this help you understand what is happening?
5. The narrator/editor has chosen to tell some things and leave other
things out. What has been left out of the story that you would like to
know?
6. Are the characteristics and actions of the people in the story still
present in the world? How is the story relevant to modern life, especially
your own?
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Young women at a banquet, Tomb of Nakht, mid-15th century BC
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